Books and Readings
Books
The Power of Now - Eckhart Tolle
A New Earth, Awakening to Your Life’s Purpose - Eckhart Tolle
The Four Agreements – Don Miguel Ruiz
The Untethered Soul – Michael Singer
Living Untethered – Michael Singer
The Surrender Experiment – Michael Singer
Daring Greatly - Brene Brown
The Gifts of Imperfection – Brene Brown
Braving the Wilderness – Brene Brown
The Heart of the Soul and Spiritual Partnerships – Gary Zukav
Change Your Thoughts – Change Your Life – Wayne Dyer
The 5 Love Languages – Gary Chapman
The Dark Side of the Light Chasers, Debbie Ford
The Right Questions, Debbie Ford
Radical Forgiveness, Colin Tipping
Becoming Supernatural, Dr. Joe Dispenza
Let Go
To “let go” does not mean to stop caring; it means I can’t do it for someone else.
To “let go” is not to cut myself off. It’s the realization I can’t control another.
To “let go” is not to enable, but to allow one to learn from natural consequences.
To “let go” is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.
To “let go” is not to try to change or blame another; it’s to make the most of myself.
To let go” is not to care for, but to care about.
To “let go” is not to fix, but to support.
To “let go” is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.
To “let go” is not to be in the middle, arranging all the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their own destinies.
To “let go” is not to be protective; it’s to permit another to face reality.
To “let go” is not to deny, but to accept.
To “let go” is not to nag, scold, or argue, but to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.
To “let go” is not to adjust everything to my desires, but to take each day as it comes, and cherish myself in it.
To “let go” is not to criticize and regulate anybody, but to work to become what I dream I can be.
To “let go” is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future.
To Let go” is to fear less, and to love more.
— Angelspeake: website: www.angelspeake.com
Dearest Inner Child
I'm sorry if you ever felt hurt, abandoned, rejected, or doubted by anyone in the past, or if you've ever felt that I have lived in a way that has excluded you from my experience. I’m sorry if I made you feel less than, humiliated, or judged by calling you an ego. I apologize for imagining you as a barrier to God, or something to get away from, as if you were not a pivotal part of my journey and the guardian to my highest Self.
I'm so sorry if my interest in spirituality made you feel like the invisible sibling that's never enough for my attention. I'm sorry if lovers seemed more important than honoring you. And when you felt unsafe around the people I surrounded myself with, I'm sorry I did not hear your requests. Instead, I tried to desperately earn the validation from those who made you feel unsafe. I now see how caring for you, my beloved innocence of heart, offers me the validation, confidence, and emotional support that no one else may be destined to provide.
May this moment of forgiveness be a restart between us, where we make peace and allow the mind and heart to reunite by coming together in the oneness of love. May we engage in the beauty and harmony of consciousness, so each battle or wound within me can be healed for the well-being of all. May I finally feel the joy of being myself, as a conscious parent to you, my own innocent nature. May you no longer have to act so desperately to earn my loving approval. May you no longer have to create existential crisis as a way of calling out for my loving attention.
I love you. I'm sorry. Please forgive me. I did not know how deeply you hurt. From this moment forward, I intend to be the one who keeps you safe, honors your curiosities and concerns by allowing you to share whatever you need to say. I am ready to turn towards the light of my divinity by listening to anything you wish to share with engaged heart-centered attention. I am prepared to love you as never before, knowing it’s not about being perfect, but about doing my best to let love be my response to the emotions you use to communicate with me.
Whether it's fear, sadness, anger, jealousy, guilt, shame, insecurity, loneliness, frustration, confusion, or even gratitude, openness, peace, and joy, each feeling is an opportunity to love you throughout each passing experience – no matter how preferable, freeing, frustrating, or inconvenient any of it seems to be.
Thank you for being a part of my life. I love you – now and forever. And so I am healed.
Please take a moment to honor the positive visceral reaction you may sense after reading this, as your inner child's way of saying, "Thank you. I trust you now".
~Matt Kahn

